Had a good talk with a couple friends recently about marriage, personalities, values, and differences. Someone once told me that we often have a process in dealing with our differences in marriage or relationships. Ignore, Reject, Accept, Celebrate. At first we tend to ignore our differences. When we can’t ignore the differences, we consciously reject them. Eventually we come to accept these differences (they are not necessarily better or worse…they are just different). And finally, we are able to celebrate these differences, embracing and cultivating them and allowing them to flourish.